Expert sex advice, proven techniques and candid conversation from The Pleasure Mechanics. Discover how to have the sex you crave! Like Savage Lovecast? You’ll love Speaking of Sex!
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Jul071 week agoSex and pleasure matter far beyond your bedroom. Sexuality is part of your social body, how you interact with and are treated by the world. Sexuality is deeply interconnected with race and class - ...
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Jun302 weeks agoThe gender galaxy is expanding - and opening up opportunities for us all. Learn all about transgender, genderqueer, genderfluid and cisgender identities, and find yourself in the gender galaxy! Lea...
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Jun233 weeks agoArousal makes us do crazy things, right? Even simple sex acts like open mouth kissing and oral sex seem strange if you think about them rationally for too long! Things we would never normally want ...
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Jun161 month agoMany people take sex way too seriously! Here's how to make sex more playful, joyful and creative. Playful sex brings us back to the creative freedom of pure pleasure seeking play. When we can laugh...
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Jun091 month agoWithout consent, desire cannot flourish ~ Carol Queen Consent is far more than the absence of “no” - and is a vital social skill in and out of the bedroom. Consent culture is a critical piece of r...
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Jun021 month agoHave you ever had trouble letting go of control long enough to have an orgasm with a partner? Here's how to surrender into orgasm, on your own terms. Many women, especially those who like being in ...
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May262 months agoMen have about three orgasms for every one a woman has in a long term relationship. This is not because women's anatomy is more complicated! It turns out that the kind of sex most people are having...
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May192 months agoEver wonder why some sex leaves you feeling kinda blah? Why is sex sometimes totally mind blowing and other times sex feels like a chore? Why does it feel like you and your partner are in two dif...
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May122 months agoWant to explore kinky sex but worried you'll get in over your head? Interested in a fetish or two, but wondering where it will lead? We often talk about what kinds of fantasies you might want to ex...
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May122 months agoWe continue the conversation we started last week about sex after baby arrives. In this episode we share thoughts on being both a sexual woman and a mom, and how to flip the switch between those ro...
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May052 months agoHow do you have sex after having a baby? How long should you wait to have sex after baby arrives? Will your sex life ever be the same after having a baby? We hear these questions about sex after pr...
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Apr283 months agoDo you ever feel too stressed out for sex? Does it take too long to get turned on? Want to feel more aroused more efficiently? You are not alone! Most people struggle to get aroused - and stress i...
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Apr143 months agoIf you are a sexually active adult, chances are you have been exposed to the herpes virus. Many people are silent carriers of the virus and will never have symptoms. But the social stigma and fear ...
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Apr073 months agoReady for a new sexual adventure? Here is everything you need to know to take your first steps into the world of social sex clubs and sex parties. Sex clubs and sex parties offer a world of erotic ...
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Mar313 months agoHookup culture is about more than casual sex. Hookup culture is part of today’s sexual landscape and affects all of us, whether or not we are in a relationship or single. Hookups are casual sexual ...
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Mar244 months agoWhat happens when your sexual desire is alive and well - but you don’t want sex with your spouse? The one person you are supposed to have sex with is not the one lighting up your fantasies, and you...
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Mar174 months agoIs it ever a good idea to have sex out of obligation? Do you owe your spouse a sex life? What is your obligation to your partner when it comes to sex? We hear variations of this question quite ofte...
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Mar034 months agoHere's what happened when we went to American Storm in Las Vegas - and came away with lots of ideas about unbridling women's sexuality, integrating fantasy into domestic life, and men's erotic embo...
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Feb245 months agoInitiating sex can be scary, even in long term relationships. Here's how to initiate (and refuse!) sex with skill and grace. If initiating sex terrifies you, you are not alone. In this episode we d...
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Feb165 months agoTraditionally, arousal is visualized as a linear progression: Arousal - Plateau- Orgasm - Resolution The standard sex advice is that to enjoy sex more, just add more arousal. More lingerie, more c...